Thursday, October 12, 2006
Its interesting how everything that happens seems to be useful to my studies of communication.
well, life is about communication. There isnt anything that isolates itself from it. Even if one were to shut up and not want to communicate, that itself is a kind of communicate.
"You cannot not communicate"- damn i forgot who said that..
201 is useful, surprisingly. I never thought the history of communication could be so applicable to everyday life.
My sis's little "saga" happened to be quite an interesting study. Why do people want to read her blog intentionally to get hurt? only to reply at her tagboard to "get back" and "defend" when they could just ignore and be happy? After all, its just a blog?
Those comments i put to stir thing up - that is another interesting point. An outsider whom they dont know or dont really know and have absolutely no relation to, my comments have stirred up a somewhat childish response- well, it might be typical of an 18-year-old but its no doubt, really interesting to see how things could build up and observe the things they consciously and unconsciously ignore.
Despite being called a secondary school girl, we still know that the only level lowers than them was secondary school and primary school- yet that reponse obviously came from the lack of their self-confidence. That is another area of interest, how the masking of one's identity could occur.
And of coz they reminded me the secondary days of arguements vs the current tensions from JC-Uni life. Of coz there is still the fear of being identified while still wanting to spurt insults- what they dont seem to be conscious of is that, they are kinder than they seem to be despite trying to be mean.
Dont you rather get hurt in your face than to be backstabbed in the cruest manner you ever know?
I shall refrain from taggin her blog now- its surprising how much you can study from just a small commotion. They will grow up soon.
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